Monday, June 29, 2015

Big Picture Thinking – Creating A New Relationship With Food

Every person has a relationship with food.  Each individual is unique in regard to his or her personal connection to food and everyone has their own story. 

The relationship that a person has with food starts long before even their most distant memory can take them back into their childhood.  A baby’s brain is starting to develop and create pathways related to food from the very first time the mother feeds them.  For many years to come following that first feeding a child is given food by the caregiver and these pathways strengthen in the brain.  By the first time a child actually makes a food decision completely by themselves, there have been years of previous behavior and conditioning that will influence that decision.  A child that has been fed nutrient dense and natural foods will most likely make different decisions than an individual that was raised eating highly processed, highly palatable foods.

This is an important concept to consider, because it can help to remove some of the burden a person may feel when dealing with his or her own relationship to food.  The fact of the matter is that individuals do not wake up one morning struggling with food addiction or in a dangerous place with food, but rather reach that situation through many years of conditioning.  This is one of the reasons that recovering from eating disorders and food addiction is difficult, and in some cases can be trickier than even treating substance abuse problems. 

As an individual eats the highly processed, highly refined foods that are commonplace in today’s food environment, they excite the areas of the brain that produce pleasure.  Over the years, individuals often times start to seek out food for the sole purpose of pleasure or as a way of changing their mood, much in the same way that a drug user would. 

For an individual in recovery, an important shift in thinking with regard to food is a change from considering it solely as a source of personal pleasure to thinking of it as a source of fuel and energy.  Through years of conditioning and the intake of highly processed foods, it is common for individuals to stop thinking of food as a source of nutrients and how it will effect them in the long term, and only focusing on the instant gratification and how it will make them feel in that one brief moment.

One very important aspect of healthy recovery from substance abuse or eating disorders is the ability to look farther down the road and see how choices that are made today will impact things in the future.  For many people in recovery, this is a new concept, and it is a far cry from their self-serving and shortsighted behavior of the past.  This way of thinking is not only beneficial in terms of abstinence from chemicals or behaviors associated with eating disorders, but also in starting to build a new relationship with food altogether.  By shifting a person’s thoughts away from foods that make them feel good in the moment, and focusing on making choices that will benefit them in the long term, new behaviors can be learned and new pathways in the brain can begin to emerge.

Eating delicious food is one of life’s great joys and can bring an individual a great amount of pleasure.  Food should be enjoyed, but the problem arises when a person only considers the pleasure of the food without considering the impact.  On the road to recovery, if the thoughts surrounding food can shift from those of pleasure exclusively to those that include the idea of food as fuel and energy, an individual has started to make some important changes.

Every choice a person makes has an impact.  By expanding one’s vision from one that is small and micro focused, to one that is larger and paints a bigger picture, a person has more of a chance to succeed in recovery.




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